Our Third Annual Violet's Light

Our third annual Violet's Light candlelight vigil and luminaria ceremony will be held in Willoughby again this year.

When: Tuesday 10/15/2013 at 7:00 pm
Where: Wes Point Park in downtown Willoughby Ohio. Across from 1 Public Square Willoughby, OH 44094. We will be holding the ceremony in the Gazebo. Street parking is available. There are also marked public parking lots.

If you'd like a name added to the list and a luminary bag with your baby's name you can email me ahead of time at violetslight@gmail.com, or send me a message on facebook,

You don't have to live in Northeast Ohio to participate! You can have a baby honored no matter where in the world you are. Last year we had babies honored from all over the world. If you have any questions, please email me.

Details for our Second Annual Violet's Light

Our Second Annual Violet's Light 

Candlelight Vigil and Luminaria Ceremony 

Contact name: Amy Neff

Contact email: violetslight@gmail.com

When: Monday 10/15/2012 at 6:30 pm

Where:  Wes Point Park in downtown Willoughby, Ohio. Across from 1 Public Square Willoughby, OH 44094. We will be holding the ceremony in the Gazebo. Street parking is available. There are also marked public parking lots.

A gathering of remembrance created in honor of my niece, Violet Evelyn Ochoa, who was born still on August 12th, 2011. This event is to honor the babies who were taken too soon from pregnancy or infant loss. We will be meeting at 6:30 to share our stories and have a candlelight vigil starting at 7:00 pm.  This year we will also have luminary bags in memory of our babies and we will be reading the names of the babies we've lost. If you'd like a name added to the list and a luminary bag with your baby's name you can email me ahead of time at violetslight@gmail.com or we can always add it before we start. 

You don't have to live in Northeast Ohio to participate.  Anyone can have a baby honored, no matter where in the world you are.

Violet's Nine Month Birthday

For Violet's nine month birthday, May 12th, we all went to the Holden Arboretum.

Violet's Mommy and Daddy 

Amber and Violet

And that evening we did a balloon release at sunset. 

Releasing the balloons and the card they got for Violet. 

Willoughby Commemorative Tree Program

For the one year anniversary of Violet's birth we are planning on having a tree planted for her.  Our town, Willoughby, Ohio, has something called the Commemorative Tree Program where you can have a tree planted in the spot of your choosing in honor or memory of a loved one.  The price includes the tree, the planting, and a personalized plaque. If you are interested in participating, or interested in having a tree planted in honor of a loved one, please email me: violetslight@gmail.com

Also, I am always taking names for this year's Violet's Light, which will be on October 15th. I will update this with more information on what we will be doing this year for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day as plans are made.

Thank you all so much.

 For more info:
willoughbyohio.com/rec_dept/forms/2008_commemorative_tree.pdfg

Video From The First Annual Violet's Light

Violet’s Light Balloon Release Ceremony in Hawaii

If you have submitted a name to be read at the Willoughby Ohio memorial vigil, that name will also be included in our Balloon Release Ceremony on the beach at sunset in Hawaii on October 15th. Each balloon will have the name of a baby written on it in remembrance.

If you would like anything else written on the balloon (such as a note, a quote, a date, or anything you wish) we can include that, too. If you would like to request a specific color balloon you can do that also.

It’s not too late to participate! If you would like to honor a baby lost through miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss please email violetslight@gmail.com

We will continue to add names for the Balloon Release until October 14th.

Notes From Baby Angel Grace

Marian Behnke, the author of the book Notes From Baby Angel Grace, has very graciously offered to donate copies of her book to Violet's Light.

We will have copies available for free at the memorial ceremony on October 15th.

As always, if you are unable to attend the event on October 15th, but would like a free copy of Notes From Baby Angel Grace
please email me at violetslight@gmail.com

I would like to truly thank Marian Behnke for her generosity and support.

I would also like to thank my aunt, Tammy Gregg, for ALL of the support, help, and love she has brought to us and Violet's Light.